Avoidance Types - There are 3

Avoidance Types ~ There are 3

There are 3 different Avoidance Types. If you are one of those who commonly avoid tasks or certain situations, it could be for several different reasons. But before you can work on solving or completing a task you’ve been putting off. It’s essential to narrow down what type of avoidance you are using to avoid something in your life; with this information you can know how best to combat it. Knowing these types will go a long way to assisting in running your HR Department as well.

Avoidance Types: Emotional Or Cognitive

This type of avoidance usually happens internally and can’t be seen by anyone other than the person experiencing the avoidance. When you, emotionally or cognitively, avoid something, it means you avoid thinking about it. This can mean either blocking out the thoughts when they come to mind or repressed memories that are incredibly stressful. Emotional avoidance is especially prominent after someone has experienced a trauma and is very common in people living with PTSD. Sometimes this type of avoidance requires medical intervention to resolve. In business, employees pulling away from certain individuals they work with can be sign they are struggling with emotional avoidance.

Avoidance Types: Situational

Situational avoidance is much easier to see among your family and friends. This form of avoidance is when you specifically avoid a certain person, place, or thing. This may remind you of something which makes you unhappy. Avoidance happens in friend groups when certain group members have had an altercation. And then don’t want to go to events where they may see the person they have disagreed with; the intention is to avoid causing problems. You may also notice this type of avoidance in a friend who constantly changes the subject when a particular topic comes up in conversation.

Avoidance Types: Protective

Protective avoidance is where you may go out of your way to protect yourself from feeling a certain emotion or experiencing something again. For example, someone who was the victim of a robbery may obsessively check the locks on all the doors in the house to ensure they are locked. This type of avoidance can be one of the most dangerous types. It can quickly escalate to more serious conditions such as obsessive-compulsive disorder or an eating disorder.

Conclusion

If you find yourself avoiding certain tasks, thoughts, or people, it’s time to evaluate why you are doing so. Keep the three types of avoidance in mind. Once you have discovered just what you are avoiding and why only then can you work towards fixing the issue. Getting professional help if you find that you can’t overcome your avoidance tenancies alone is not a sign of weakness. It is actually a sign of strength and confidence. Join us in our Facebook Group for more support with finding success in your business.